Choose Life, Not Death

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Key Scripture:

Ezekiel 18:31–32 (ESV)

“Cast away from you all the transgressions that you have committed, and make yourselves a new heart and a new spirit! Why will you die, O house of Israel? For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord GOD; so turn, and live.”

1. Opening Prayer

• Ask for the Holy Spirit to open hearts and minds.

• Invite God to speak through His Word and convict, encourage, and build each man present.

2. Read the Passage Aloud

• Ezekiel 18:30–32 for context.

• Optional: Have different men read different verses.

3. Key Themes to Discuss

A. Personal Responsibility for Sin

Ezekiel 18:20: “The soul who sins shall die…”

• God is not blaming others—each man is accountable.

• Great for men to own their walk with God.

Discussion Questions:

• Why is it important to take personal responsibility before God?

• How do men today sometimes shift blame instead of owning sin?

B. God Desires Repentance, Not Punishment

2 Peter 3:9: “The Lord… is patient… not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.”

• God is not angry just to be angry. His frustration is because He wants us to live.

Discussion Questions:

• What does this tell us about God’s heart?

• Have you ever resisted God’s call to change, even though He meant it for your good?

C. The Call to “Make Yourselves a New Heart”

Psalm 51:10: “Create in me a clean heart, O God…”

• This is a call to surrender, not self-effort.

• God wants to partner with us in transformation.

Discussion Questions:

• What does it mean to get a “new heart” and “new spirit”?

• How do you let God do that in your life?

4. Takeaway Challenge

Reflect and Repent

• Encourage each man to examine one area where they’re resisting God’s call to change.

• Write it down privately, and pray about it during the week.

Support One Another

• Ask: “How can we help each other walk in life instead of spiritual death?”

• Consider pairing up as prayer/accountability partners for the next week.

5. Closing Scripture and Prayer

Romans 6:23 (ESV)

“For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

• Pray together that the men would choose life, lean into God’s grace, and walk in renewed strength.